Why do so many men in India still whisper about their sexual health?
According to surveys, around 3–7% of Indian men report having sex with men, though experts believe the true number is much higher due to stigma. Among them, studies suggest nearly half will face a sexual health issue at some point. Whether it’s a sexual infection (STI), erection issues (ED), or performance anxiety. Yet, less than 15% seek timely medical help.
Ravi, 29, is one of them. He avoided HIV and STI testing for years because he feared the local doctor might expose him. Like many others, shame and lack of privacy kept him away from care until symptoms forced him to act. By then, his condition was harder to treat.
This silence is dangerous. In this blog, we’ll break down common sexual health issues faced by men who have sex with men (MSM) in India, challenge myths, and show how Luvomen provides discreet, judgment-free solutions. So men like Ravi don’t have to wait until it’s too late.
Common sexual health issues in Gay Men (MSM)
STIs you might not realize you have:
When his blood test came back clear, Ravi thought he was safe. Months later, he learned he had untreated rectal gonorrhea, something the blood test never picked up. Most labs in India still don’t offer rectal and throat swabs yet these are crucial for MSM. A single blood test isn’t enough. At Luvomen, our doctors guide you on exactly which tests to ask for so you don’t get caught off guard.
Pain or Discomfort during bottoming:
Ravi tried douching with tap water before sex, thinking it was hygienic. Instead, he ended up with irritation and pain. Research shows that improper douching can increase the risk of infections. (douching “सेक्स से पहले गुदा की सफाई” mean washing or rinsing inside the anus using water or a liquid soap solution before or after sex to clean the rectum before anal sex to feel fresh or reduce the chance of mess). People often use a small bottle, bulb, or shower attachment to push water inside and then expel it. Using tap water or soap can however irritate the rectum and increase the chance of small cuts and over-washing can actually increase risk of infections like HIV or STIs because the natural lining gets damaged.
What’s rarely discussed in India is the role of pelvic floor relaxation, anal dilation, and the right lube. These steps can make bottoming safer and more comfortable. Luvomen’s experts can guide you through a step-by-step plan and recommend safe products including Luvo Prime, which supports sexual confidence and stamina.
Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety:
Ravi told himself he wasn’t “man enough” when he struggled with erections. What he didn’t realize is that ED is two to three times more common in MSM, often linked to stress, anxiety, or relationship pressures, not weakness.
Luvomen offers discreet consultations and access to Luvo Blue and Luvo Blue plus (Tadalafil 5 and 10 mg), along with natural options like Luvo Prime, so men can overcome ED and get back to enjoying intimacy.
Low Testosterone & energy issues:
Ravi thought his constant fatigue was only due to long hours at work. In reality, his testosterone was low. Signs can include low sex drive, poor erections, and even mood changes.
At Luvomen, we help men identify these problems early and support them with treatments and supplements like Luvo Boost, designed for energy, vitality, and hormone balance.
Doctor recommended modern prevention tools every MSM should know
PrEP & event-based dosing (2-1-1):
Ravi ordered PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) from abroad because he thought it wasn’t available in India. In truth, access is improving, but very few men know the details.
PrEP reduces HIV risk by up to 99% when taken correctly. Doctors at Luvomen can explain daily PrEP or event-based (2-1-1) dosing and how you can access it in India.
DoxyPEP: A New way to prevent STIs
Ravi was surprised when his U.S. friend said he takes a pill (doxycycline) after sex to prevent STIs. This approach, called doxyPEP, has been approved in the U.S. for MSM with frequent STIs.
India hasn’t adopted it yet, but many men are curious. At Luvomen, our experts provide updated guidance, explaining who might benefit and what the risks are.
Vaccines you might kot Know you need:
Few MSM in India know that the HPV vaccine can prevent anal warts and even anal cancer or that the mpox vaccine can protect men during outbreaks.
Doctors at Luvomen explain which vaccines are available, where to get them, and why they matter.
Step-by-Step: Building your sexual health plan
- Take the free Luvomen online assessment
- Book testing: including rectal and throat swabs.
- Discuss prevention: PrEP, PEP, or doxyPEP with a doctor.
- Learn safe bottoming: relaxation, dilation, and lube use.
- Treat sexual issues: ED, PE, or low T with Tadalafil, Duloxetine, Luvo Prime, or Luvo
Boost. - Repeat check-ups every 6 months.
Myths MSM in India still believe
- “STIs only happen to men with many partners.” → False. Risk depends on protection, not numbers.
- “Using lube is optional.” → False. The wrong lube can cause micro-tears and raise STI risk.
- “ED means I’m not masculine.” → False. Most cases are treatable, often stress-related.
Too many men have stayed silent for too long. If you’ve ever typed your worries into Google late
at night, you’re not alone. Every man deserves clear answers and safe solutions. Luvomen makes
it easier, faster, and judgment-free. Change starts with one step.
Take that step today—consult a Luvomen doctor now.
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